Use family gatherings to compare notes, plan ahead

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Sometimes friends and family are the last to realize that a senior needs help. Seniors may try to hide that they are struggling with everyday tasks, like managing stairs, bathing, vacuuming, or driving. They know that they can’t do the things they used to do, but still want to keep their independence and don’t want to bother friends or family.

Afraid of falling when stepping into the tub to take a shower? Well, a sponge bath at the sink will work. Too many stairs to the laundry room? Laundry basket getting too heavy? Maybe I can wash my clothes less often. Cooking getting too much for just one person? Well, a can of soup or just some crackers and cheese will do.

Holidays and other family gatherings offer a good opportunity for family to compare notes on any changes they’ve observed lately and come up with a plan for helping a senior stay safe in their home.

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Sue Kohl Tamaoki is based in the San Francisco Bay Area. Until recently, she owned and operated a senior referral agency, helping families find assisted living and memory care for loved ones. Prior to becoming a senior referral agent, she was a technical writer and editor, instructional designer, and college instructor. Sue writes this blog to share what she has learned from working with families who want to help an aging loved one, but aren’t sure where to go or what to do. Disclaimer Sue has a Certified Senior Advisor credential, but is not a medical practitioner, financial planner, or lawyer. She is not affiliated with any organization or religious group. The information in this blog is for educational purposes only and should not be used as a substitute for advice from a licensed professional. Any action you take based on the information provided here is strictly at your own risk.

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